It’s funny how pretty people makes those they deem less pretty, feel insecure about themselves when in actually reality they’re the one who take part in ridiculous diet plans and beauty and exercise regimes just to stay that way… in this light who is the real insecure one? But I digress. You see this every day in relationships but what really shocks me is how ignorant we can be, but because the book really is judged by the cover and never really thinking of how impressive the quality of the read can be, if only we took the time to open up the book. It’s extremely sad when to think because of how he/she looked you gave up the world because when I think in terms of my logic, though fallible. People who think themselves to be unattractive or if society told them this, they had to develop a personality because that was the only thing they could lean on, so they have all the characteristics we dream of in a partner just without the Jennifer Lopez or the Brad Pitt looks and all they ever wanted was a chance and someone to love them back… how sad is this? Breaks my heart thinking of it… instead of being with someone who wants to give you their heart and world you judge and break them down. Beautiful how “beauty” facilitates ignorance and cruelty don’t you think? You date someone who you deem beautiful and what you don’t see is the strain that comes with that person, everyone looks and wants what you have so they fight for it and you have to fend them all off so it’s a constant battle to keep her or him, don’t get me wrong I’m not saying all “beautiful” people are the same because beauty is measured differently and there are the exceptions, there are those blessed with both external beauty and internal beauty. These are the rare people out there but not extinct, it’s just that life as well as society has instilled this stigma that y9ou need to “beautiful” in order to make something of yourself and what’s sad is that we follow these trends never anticipating that this course of actions isn’t fulfilling but the opposite, instead of following our hearts we worry about what others are thinking. Personality trumps all and makes relationships meaningful that’s all I’m saying so please don’t tread on others people dreams just because you think you are pretty

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